A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) as saying: It is not permissible for a woman believing in Allah and the Hereafter to observe mourning on the dead for more than three (days), except in case of her husband.
Read More..Umm `Atiyya (Allah be pleased with her) reported that Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) had said: A woman must not observe mourning for one who had died for more than three (days) except for four months and ten days in the case of her husband. And she must not wear a dyed garment except one of the types made of dyed yarn, or apply collyrium, or touch perfume except a little perfume or incense, when she has been purified after her courses.
Read More..A hadith like this has been narrated on the authority of Hisham with the same chain of narrators but with a slight variation of words.
Read More..Umm 'Atiyya ('Allah be pleased with her) said: We were forbidden to observe mourning for the dead beyond three days except in the case of husband (where it is permissible) for four months and ten days, and (that during this period) we should neither use collyrium nor touch perfume, nor wear dyed clothes, but concession was given to a woman when one of us was purified of our courses to make use of a little incense or scent.
Read More..Sahl b. Sa'd al-Sa'idi reported that'Uwaimir al-'Ajlani came to 'Asim b. 'Adi al-Ansari and said to him. Tell me about a person who finds a man with his wife; should he kill him, and be killed In retaliation; or how should he act? 'Asim, ask for me (religious verdict about it) from Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ). So 'Asim asked Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) and he did not like this question and he disapproved of it so much that'Asim felt aggrieved at what he had heard from Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ). When 'Asim came back to his family, 'Uwaimir came to him and said: 'Asim, what did Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) say to you? 'Asim said to 'Uwaimir: You did not bring something good. Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) did not like this religious verdict that I sought from him. 'Uwaimir said: By Allah, I will not rest until I have asked him about it. 'Uwaimir proceeded until he came to Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) as he was sitting amidst people, and said: Messenger of Allah, tell me about a person who found a man with his wife. Should he kill him, and then you would kill him, or how should he act? Thereupon Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) said: (Verses) have been revealed concerning you and your wife; so go and bring her. Sahl said that they both invoked curses (and further said): I was along with people in the company of Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ). And when they had finished, Uwaimir said: Allah's Messenger, I shall have told a lie against her if I keep her (now). So he divorced her with three pronouncements before Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) had commanded him. Ibn Shihab said: Subsequently that was the practice of invokers of curses (al Mutala'inain)
Read More..Sahl b. Sa'd reported.. 'Uwaimir al-Ansari (Allah be pleased with him) from Banu'l-'Ajlan came to 'Asim b. 'Adi (Allah be pleased with him) the remaining part of the hadith is the same and it was also reecorded in it: And subsequebtly the separation became the practice of al-Mutala'inain. And this addition was also made: She was pregnant and her son was ascribed to her, and it became customary that such (a son) would inherit her and she would inherit him in the share prescribed by Allah for her.
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